User Profile

I'm Ben. My full name is Benjamin Lee Bland The third.
My perspective on things changes sometimes.
I think to myself and analyze things more then i say what I'm thinking out loud.
I get loud and obnoxious around groups of people and totally feed into group social catalyst.
I'm not actually as loud as you might think.
I go to a performing Arts highschool in Hadley called: Pioneer Valley Performing Arts Charter public school.
I used to sing and be a music major....
but now i do theatre, i'm not sure where my heart lies.
I talk a lot.
I put slow songs on repeat in headphones and get all somber sometimes, but it's no big deal.
I used to have a lot of friends,
but now i just have a few immediate friends, and I'm ok with that.
Most of the time I'm a slave to the unavailable.
I rarely ever like boys who like me back for some reason.
I always find myself attracted to boys way out of my reach, not sure why.
I get competitive sometimes, but then other times i completely loose all motivation to do anything.
I guess I'm pretty regular.
i used to make it a point to get weird looks in public, but something happened in my head, and that stopped.
I'm told i talk weird. I don't think so though.
most of the time I talk proper English, unless online or joking around.
I'm pretty Sarcastic, thanks to the rest of my family being sarcastic.
I have that sense of humor where you laugh at random outburst and awkward comments.
I also like to have random dance sessions around the house.

My Father left when I was 3, and my mother raised me by herself.
I admire her for everything she's been through more then you know,
even if i don't show it.

Well, that's it i suppose.



I like conversation. It helps pull me out of
my silly contemplative fits and into something
actually worthwhile you know?
But I like other stuff too of course.
I've become somewhat of a computer junky lately,
which is why i decided to get back on here now.
myspace and face book of course.

other interest:
I like to read and write. English is my favorite subject,
and I'm going to be an English major in College. History is interesting too though.
some of it. I'm so over the parts they make you read about like 100 times,
but some of it can still interest me.

I mainly read fantasy fiction and stuff. and anything by James Patterson too.

politics interest me too,
but i haven't been up on it lately because
I'm not in my civics class anymore.

I watch reality T.V. sometimes, but T.V.
is becoming less and less important the older i get.

I really like Strawberry banana smoothies from
dunkin donuts... alot, you don't even know.

I have to sing Holla back girl by Gwen Stephani to spell banana. haha

and i'm intrested in so much more!!!!
but people are too multi layered to fit into these boxes usualy.
oh and music music music of course.

add on:
Happy potter, music, acting performing arts, expression, beat boxing, facial expression, travel.
and tons of others of course.

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